Ever asked yourself, “Why am I so dumb?” Perhaps you’re not. Maybe there’s just something you haven’t mastered yet. Let’s start with a foundational question: “Is any newborn born with innate knowledge?“
I’d wager you’d answer “no,” echoing the idea that we’re all blank slates at birth. Our diverse experiences as we grow shape our knowledge and abilities. It’s essential to ask, “What factors contribute to one person seeming smarter than another?”
- Family’s social status?
- Geographical location?
- Quality of education?
It’s hard to pinpoint a single factor that defines intelligence or capability. Moreover, the term “brilliant” varies across cultures and societies. It’s problematic to measure ourselves by someone else’s yardstick.
If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it’ll spend its life believing it’s inept
Societal norms often pigeonhole us, dictating benchmarks for success. It’s vital to recognize your unique strengths and not merely compare yourself to others.
Just because you can’t sing like Rihanna or dribble like Messi doesn’t devalue your abilities. Every individual has their own zone of genius; the key is to identify and nurture it.
In academia, this “one size fits all” mentality can detrimentally impact students’ mental health. Not everyone excels at memorization or mathematics. Our skills and preferences are shaped by a myriad of influences, from our upbringing to the books we’ve read.
It’s crucial to stop self-condemnation. Instead, focus on your strengths. If you discover a necessary skill you lack, work on honing it. Everyone has a unique learning pace; what’s vital is persistence and recognizing areas for growth.
In your journey of self-improvement, acknowledge your strengths and weaknesses. Chart a path that aligns with your goals, and invest the effort to bridge any skill gaps. Your individuality is your strength; embrace it.
Ehoneah Obed: Pharmacist, Software Engineer, Health Informatics Student.
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